Converting jealousy to the success of a dilemma for many, Dr. Charah professor of psychology at New York University, says: "the feeling of jealousy is often accompanied by a feeling of envy, but the opposite is not always true, that you might envy people but not jealous of him," This looks starters suitable know them on this disease that once the human infects even initiate dragged to the bottom by the day, and his heart is filled with darkness and hatred may reach up being a break down all the beautiful and spoiling his life to it.
According to Dr. Charah it separates Caourin all tend to be regarded as a sense of one, Vagheirh of perspective is a personal strongly sense touches confidante of the human heart and his life directly whether jealousy excited because of something actually possessed man and jealous of him paranoid fear of losing and losing Kagheirh on, for example, spouse or office Aatlah or the success achieved. Vaegar it does not want to share it with one was hurt go crazy and lose poise of his ideas and the safety area en masse one thing of his property, which lies within the scope of his jealousy, small like a child who is jealous of the one got the attention and the attention of his mother, even for a moment, or someone touched played or wanted to play them Vahsash ownership for those who loved his things or making a barrier of jealousy between him and share his tolerance or with the principle of sharing the same
Huwail jealousy to success: the right way
1 envy and jealousy while the envy takes the course last but unlike jealousy that are inherent and automatic since the smallness and remain present in our hearts and the formation of our personalities until our death, as long as under control and scalability in a reasonable range, be the envy disease is normally not born with us but earned by self is inclined towards evil and hating so good they prevent Bzlamha good for others and herself, the envy that everyone envied for what they are and what it wounded him of happiness or success or work or even property may not interest you and yours do not even want to get to like her.
But the evil in the same envious begrudge others happy and to win and succeed, it is not Kagheior wanted success won him the other but it is a corrupt, ignorant and fall into the abyss of failure quickly and does not want to see success visible to others, but wishes pulled him to the abyss abysmal failure. Envy's disease who did not styled himself and Ihgmeha and Arodha Vhpt from its collar and Toah and spoiled Bilhawa, hatred and the Principality bad, and the envy disease Vagheirh The increased all alone and devoured the heart of its owner walked him in the same way and I have occupied for the same without him and Oadzth for success for sitting and watching others' successes and bemoan them and feeds his heart hatred towards those who did not do anything to him except that they have made a greater effort or deserved more success is not.
2 personal reasons behind these diseases often find the owners of these diseases were in the young age pampered to the extent of corruption or denied to the extent of hatred and pain, Valmudall accustomed to getting his way without fatigue or exertion, it is enough to ask is implemented his request and order Vitaa command, with time counting Child himself center of the universe, and he deserves everything without fatigue or effort or trying to, and success Sikr kneeling in front of him to be surprised in real life they toiled and tired than they won success that did not deserve, knowing this fact is essential in transforming jealousy to success. Hence his story begins with jealousy chooses between two roads either succumbing to jealousy and left engulfed and either re improve his theories about life and his view of it and find a place of them and the effort and success and maturity distracted from his zeal to reform himself. Understand this is beginning to transform jealousy to success.
3 child deprived the child deprived or whatever reason that hatred and resentment and envy sown in his heart to humans either knew the mother did not know them, Kvaked love and attention in childhood or who suffered cruelty and degrading treatment is so that their grandfather is Ervshma and Icagl them envy from The Jdoheme and owners of hearts happy and carefree. A child deprived often suffers from a lot of problems in order to transform jealousy to success. The self prone to evil if Tqdha to the right path Ogrguetk in the swamp of error, how do you overcome the protective jealousy of the success of others and turning energy jealousy cationic to said high stepping it to your success?
4 frankness with self-candor with the very important self in your quest to transform jealousy to success, whatever Tguenat and dimmable in your life and others do not never forget leave Oguenatk on the door of your room, Adolf them stood in front of the windowsill naked except your truth alone, be honest with yourself to know weaknesses and strengths, distinguish between goodness and evil, and its advantages and disadvantages, and believe it Sarhaa fact sense of jealousy, study with that feeling, its causes and Mthirath because the move is the beginning of frees you from your problem is well. Be the sergeant on yourself and frank with them do not always lie and claim so incredible Kzbk, and where you started on your own. As Saranha and Interview by Vthag them, start by building your confidence and your ability to achieve your dreams are all Marbak whatever made it difficult so be confident of your ability to access at the end.
5 surrender of envy that the surrendering of envy are just shaken confidence in themselves Vakedo faith in their abilities counted everyone the best of them and Rozkoa broader them sustenance and Ottawa of luck and success unless Aath is no reason, they fail the people in transforming jealousy to success, and some even be unaware of his abilities others find it more accurately defines the details of their successes and he does not know anything about himself or about his strength and abilities and gives them the size or space or attention Vtnqlb him a bystander envious and resentful.
6 error of human nature are all human beings and we all make mistakes and we all fail and we all filled with drawbacks until almost overflowing with us and Ngrguena once succumb to it, and you humans do not differ from them in something and minuses as pluses two halves Mtaadlan Vic formation Bharitk do not close your eyes for one and Fhama on Atsallma on the other. Safe admitted Baijat and Mt together and take advantage of both of them equally do not focus on the Mt until the prisoner Zlmtha located Tamak for Aijat and the way the whole, what made the negatives but tests and difficulties, we go beyond them and express Assaabha and get to the success dependent on our lessons them, there is no greater than of given it never, this is the beginning of the road in order to convert to the success of jealousy.
7. Make sure there is justice Mark is always in your heart certainly unwavering justice of God in dividing livelihoods, distribution and land Bakdrick and patient on the scourge, always do your your best does not waver or drag their heels about doing your part fully until you are satisfied about yourself and what have been made if not hit the success that I meant no objected to spend and be a believer in God, in his wisdom and justice and that what happened to you is good, does not atone Bakdrick due to your failure Vtaatkhazl first for the pursuit of success again and stretched out on the road enrich yourself, God does not waste the reward of the best work.
8 Be creative Be creative yourself focused on your way and your success and your goals and the conversion to the success of jealousy, grandfather donated for yourself what it does best and distinguish you from the others and not Tzahmanm in their fields and their dreams Vinghawwa and fail! But your grandfather and your goal and dream your way and enough is enough, and once you find what you want do not pay attention to others and Ti_agl your way of what they do and focus all your attention and your strength and energy on Muradk and receives it.
9. Be a good Mark your heart full of love and goodness and the wish for others, devoted part of their time and money and effort to charity work he enters goodness, comfort and happiness on your heart and get it out of the error of darkness, selfishness and self-love and the distance you fall into the abyss of jealousy and envy, if found successful in front of you and achieved unless achieve or reach him after the farm it remind him good and hard way to success for monitoring its success. Envious and jealous Do not be Vchea hatred around you and when you get to the end of the ladder of success finally will not find it celebrates with you your success or congratulates him, you lost the love of those around you when she lost the whites of your heart and cleansed, and benevolence, love goodness for others to find it cost-effective to you at the appropriate time, jealousy tend the happiness of your heart and your life, is not harmful to others as much as you Tdhark the settled jealous they will continue to rise and you will continue in the fall, be smart be a good and purify your heart, my friend, in order to shift to the success of jealousy.
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